Monday, June 27, 2011

It's Not About You...

Just thought I'd share with you guys my most recent post to the Omprakash website.  The director of communications wants to republish it so I'll let you read it here first  :)

"Something I’ve noticed throughout my travels is that volunteering is a huge part of Western culture. It’s almost expected to have some kind of volunteer experience on a resume or CV these days and if you don’t, people even question your dedication. With such an emphasis on building a resume and ensuring that one has some kind of volunteer status, it’s important to take a deeper look at the reasons why you are volunteering.
Do you volunteer because you want to build your resume? To gain valuable experience? To create relationships and network in hopes of a future job? Because of a dedication to a cause? To ‘help others’? Whatever your motive is when you volunteer for any kind of organization, I’ve found that expectations can make or break your experience.
Westerners often come to grassroots organizations in third world areas with the mindset that they have all the answers; that they know how to solve the problems of the organization and community in which they are working. And most volunteers do have new and fresh eyes and an educational background to help out. But are they truly meeting the needs of that community?
Surface level problems will be apparent—lack of water at a school, no clothes or shoes for children, old broken sports equipment, poor gardens, etc. And due to certain backgrounds, you’ll have the capacity to implement certain solutions. They key here is creating solutions with the community you are based in. If you just arrive, create a project, take some pictures, make some friends and then leave—will your work be sustainable? You certainly don’t want it to fall apart after you‘ve gone.
When I came to work for the Amy Biehl Foundation for the second time, I thought I knew what was needed. During my previous volunteer stint with ABF, I saw a place to fill a hole with computer classes in the township; but when I arrived, a greater need had surfaced. You see, all 5 centres urgently needed to be registered due to a new law passed in South Africa. Since most people were busy with other time sensitive projects, I was put in charge of ensuring that the centres were up to date with the new regulations and that all the correct paperwork was in on time. Definitely not what I expected.
Pulling from my one and only semester of Business Law, I poured over legal documents, new laws passed and country-wide regulations to ensure that our Foundation met all relevant criteria. (I didn’t expect to use the English dictionary so much in Africa!) Visiting the centres, talking with principles, teachers and groundskeepers ensured that I kept my Xhosa dictionary handy as well. Several months later and the project has mostly been completed from my side. I’ve liaised with government officials, public servants and people who I never expected to come in contact with---and I’ve learned a lot.
It’s not that my computer class wasn’t a true need. I’m still teaching twice a week and the kids are learning faster than I could’ve imagined. They’re learning. I’m learning. And through the whole thing, the kids are improving their computer skills. It just that the registration took priority over what I had in mind. It makes me wonder how many times I’ve jumped into situations because I thought I knew what was best…
Don’t get me wrong, there are many instances when our perceptions of problems and solutions to those problems are effective and beneficial. And yes, every little bit helps. I guess it all boils down to a few simple things when volunteering abroad:
  1. Be flexible—don’t think you always have all the answers all the time.
  2. Ask questions—figure out what the true needs of the organization or community are and then use your background and knowledge to come up with solutions.
  3. Listen—listen well and uncover the heart of the issues--tackle those.
  4. Use your talents to do whatever you can to help. The fact that you’re giving it your all will spur others on to come up with creative solutions and join in your development.
And remember, it’s not about you. But you play a huge part in making things happen--don’t be shy :)"

Saturday, June 25, 2011

Leaving

Well this time it was weird.  And by weird, I mean that this week I got to experience the other side of leaving.  Usually, I'm the one leaving for someplace new and exciting.  Leaving for university, leaving for Paris with Barbara, leaving for Cape Town to study, leaving for London with my dad, leaving for Cape Town again, leaving Cape Town to go home, leaving Columbia for STL.....  The trip to the airport usually contains my close family and my suitcases in the backseat.  I'm ready for the next adventure, the beautiful new scenery and the challenges that lie ahead.  And yes, I'm always sad to leave behind people I love, but I also know that modern technology makes communication with them pretty darn easy.

But this time, I wasn't the one leaving.

Yes, we went to the airport, but the backseat didn't have my bags in it. No, this time I had to say goodbye to one of my 3 sisters leaving for my home country.

In a lot of ways, Alyssa and I are alike--same music, same clothes, same nail polish colors, same jewelry, same hair, same faith, same views on life, same love of sugary batter, etc etc.  The only thing that isn't the same is our shoe size (and trust me, that's a huge bummer).  Her leaving means me saying goodbye to my other half.  She finishes my sentences, understands my rambling jargon and doesn't leave when I start dancing in the kitchen.

It's funny, sending her off to the good old US of A...I feel like I'm the one at home saying goodbye to her and wishing her well on her new epic adventure to foreign lands.  Life here will remain the same for us (minus her of course), but she'll be meeting new people, seeing new sights and having new adventures.  It's exciting and I'm SUPER amped and happy for her, but I'll surely be missing my other half.

Guess this is what it's like for my family and friends back home...always having to say goodbye, not knowing when you'll see them again.  It's not exactly fun, but the promise of adventure and learning new things, keep me excited to see where this journey takes my little lizard breath (sorry lyss, I had too:) )

So Bon Voyage my seester!  I can't wait to see where your next adventure takes you, love you and miss you already.