
Sometimes, things have a funny way of happening, right? I’m sure you know what I’m talking about—this person talks to that person, who overhears another person’s conversation and before you know it, you’re somewhere you least expect. Well, this week was just one of those weeks….
Instead of boring you with a long story, I’ll get right to the point and tell you why I was up late baking cookies this Thursday. On Tuesday, I found out that through a series of events, I would have the opportunity to meet the one and only Desmond Tutu! Now if you don’t know who he is, you need to stop right now and read the following 2 paragraphs and then read the book No Future Without Forgiveness. If you DO know who he is, you can skip the next 2 paragraphs and read No Future Without Forgiveness again (hint: it’s even better the second time).
“Desmond Mpilo Tutu (born 7 October 1931) is a South African activist and Christian cleric who rose to worldwide fame during the 1980s as an opponent of apartheid. He was the first black South African Anglican Archbishop of Cape Town, South Africa, and primate of the Church of the Province of Southern Africa (now the Anglican Church of Southern Africa).
Tutu has been active in the defence of human rights and uses his high profile to campaign for the oppressed. He has campaigned to fight AIDS, tuberculosis, homophobia, poverty and racism. Tutu received the Nobel Peace Prize in 1984, the Albert Schweitzer Prize for Humanitarianism in 1986, the Ghandi Peace Prize in 2005, the Presidential Medal of Freedom in 2009 and was inducted into the Golden Key International Honour Society as an Honorary Member in 2001, by the University of Stellenbosch. Tutu has also compiled several books of his speeches and sayings.”
Taken from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Desmond_Tutu (click the link for more)
Nobel Peace Prize laureate has been a voice of principle, an unrelenting champion of justice and a dedicated peacemaker. Tutu played a pivotal role in South Africa's struggle against apartheid, the now-abolished system of white-minority rule. He was chairman of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission which practiced restorative justice for the heinous crimes committed during the apartheid era. It has been said that without such a commission, South Africa would still be festering in the open wounds of its horrible past.
Ok, now that you know a bit about Desmond Tutu, I hope you can begin to feel the excitement, nervousness, joy, honor, etc that I was feeling all week long. Tutu announced in July that he was officially retiring and stepping down from the public eye after his birthday (7 October). Turning 79 and constantly being on the road will eventually catch up to you and in his retirement announcement speech he stated that he just wanted to sit and home and drink rooibos tea with his wife and watch cricket. How cute! In order to begin the ‘winding down’ of his career, he decided to be a professor on the Semester at Sea ‘study abroad’ ship. Cape Town is one of the stops and he was only home for 10 days before moving on to the next port in India.
Anyways, (sorry this is turning into a longer story than I thought) one of my co-workers is actually good friends with this astounding man and was going to breakfast with him on Friday and asked me if I would like to come along. Of course I said yes, even if it meant waking up at 5.30am and finding my way to town! Thursday being his birthday, I wanted to get him a gift and card—nothing huge, but what in the world do you buy for someone like Desmond Tutu??? I wanted it to be personal, but not too obscure. After doing some thinking, I decided cookies were a suitable gift. Everyone enjoys a good cookie and it wasn’t too over the top. As I was making them, I couldn’t help but think….”oh my goodness, I’m making chocolate chip cookies for Desmond Tutu….FOR DESMOND TUTU!!” Eish, life is funny, eh?
Thursday night was spent with little sleep as I pondered what I would say, how I would act, etc. I didn’t want to go the Barbara Walters route and ask him his views on things happening in the world today, but I did have so many things I wanted to pick his brain about. I didn’t want to be all paparazzi either—ya know, please can we take 3 photos and will you sign my 10 copies of No Future Without Forgiveness? I finally settled on 2 questions and tried to get some sleep.
Bright and early I headed out to St. Georges Cathedral to meet up with my co-worker and eventually Tutu. The emeritus archbishop was giving an early morning service and I was fortunate enough to catch the end of it and take communion with him and the rest of those present (about 50). After the service, Desmond walked right up to my co-worker and said, “Faizel! Good to see you, are we still on for later??” I tried not to let my jaw drop as this cute little bald bishop giggled his way through the crowd, graciously greeting everyone, taking pictures, and signing books. Kind of a shame that people brought books to sign to a church service, but what can you do?
Unfortunately, the service and his own little meet and greet took so long that we barely had time to have breakfast with the man. And by barely, I mean, he sat with us for 5, maybe 10, minutes. Those 10 minutes were incredible though. I gave him the cookies and wished him a happy birthday and he just giggled and said, “ooo! I love chocolate!” (Apparently, he usually orders a chocolate milkshake and then right afterwards, a hot chocolate, ha!) We talked a bit about retirement and how he was looking forward to sitting at home with his wife and whether or not he would actually be able to slow down. Ya know, just normal small talk conversation. And before I knew it, our small little meeting was over and he had to go and move on to another appointment.
The whole thing was all pretty surreal actually….I walked away thinking, “Oh my gosh, I just had a small conversation with someone so influential in the course of history for so many South Africans. Wait, I just gave him cookies for his birthday…oh man…is this real life?” It was so nice to know that this man who has achieved so much is just like you and me—he loves his chocolate and he loves to laugh. After everything he has been through, he is still as gracious as ever and when he looks you in the eye and says, “Pleased to meet you,” you can tell that he genuinely is pleased to know your name.
Maybe I will email him next week and ask him how he liked the cookies….apparently he responds quite quickly to his emails now that he has his very own iPad… J